Through interviews with three generations of Japanese and Japanese diaspora families, we will examine the role of the mother as the nutritional gatekeeper.

: It acknowledges that plants and animals gave their lives to provide nourishment.

It directly thanks the mother for the labor and effort put into preparing the dish.

When the child pops the lid and says Okaasan, itadakimasu , they are acknowledging the tejika (handmade cost) embedded in every grain of rice. For the mother, those four syllables are the only paycheck she will ever receive for 18 years of breakfasts, lunches, and dinners.

To join in on this beautiful tradition, follow these simple steps: in front of your chest. Bow slightly as you say the phrase. Say it clearly : Pronounced "ee-tah-dah-kee-mahss" .