Once the initial "getting to know you" phase is over, move toward a deeper bond.
Understand that your role might evolve over time. You might need to adjust to new dynamics within your family. My Sons GF version
| Behavior | Concern Level | |----------|----------------| | Isolates your son from family | High | | Disrespects your home rules | Medium-High | | Changes personality drastically around you vs. alone with him | Medium | | Has a new "version" of herself every six months | Low-Medium | | Encourages your son’s growth | Green flag! | Once the initial "getting to know you" phase