Yet, in the last three years, there has been a visible shift. Conversations with local lawyers in Anantnag reveal a startling statistic: the number of "love marriage registrations" in the District Court that involve cross-sectarian couples has increased by nearly 40% (from a very low base) since 2021.
One notable aspect of romantic relationships in Anantnag is the growing acceptance of love marriages. While arranged marriages are still prevalent, many young couples are now choosing to marry for love, often defying traditional family expectations. This shift is reflected in the increasing number of couples seeking counseling services to navigate relationship challenges and conflicts. Yet, in the last three years, there has been a visible shift
However, their love was not without its challenges. Umar's traditional family, while supportive of his choices, had reservations about Aruj's unconventional profession. Aruj's parents, who had encouraged her to pursue her passion for art, worried about the distance between their home in Srinagar and Umar's family in Anantnag. While arranged marriages are still prevalent, many young